Red Flags: Avoiding Abusive Relationships
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Dating isn't a game. It's about meeting a variety of people and discovering the qualities that are important to you in a successful relationship. The Love Referee gives the three essential elements of a good date: feeling safe, feeling respected, and having shared values. The red flags of dating--control, lying, lifestyle, obsessive behavior, abuse and sexual pressure--are presented through vignettes and personal stories.
Media Details
Runtime: 21 minutes 12 seconds
- Topic: Counseling and Self-Help, Health and Safety, Social Science
- Subtopic: Dating, Emotional Abuse, Interpersonal Relations
- Grade/Interest Level: 8 - 12
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- Release Year: 1995
- Producer/Distributor: Meridian Education Corporation
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