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Red Flags: Avoiding Abusive Relationships

21 minutes 12 seconds

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Young woman looks out with a serious expression and furrowed brow. Caption. You can't change someone or fix things for them.

Dating isn't a game. It's about meeting a variety of people and discovering the qualities that are important to you in a successful relationship. The Love Referee gives the three essential elements of a good date: feeling safe, feeling respected, and having shared values. The red flags of dating--control, lying, lifestyle, obsessive behavior, abuse and sexual pressure--are presented through vignettes and personal stories.

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Runtime: 21 minutes 12 seconds

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    Jo Ann M. (Edgewater, MD)
    December 5th, 2018 at 08:50 AM

    Excellent and timely for today's kids.